What doesn't make sense to me is (No, Christy I don't mean just you), "He's just your type!" The last time I heard this I smiled to myself wondering, "What's my type today?"
I usually get responses like these:
Asian - Yes, I did go about 7 years just dating Asian-American men.
Short - I've only ever dated 1 guy who was taller than me and even then only by an inch.
Old - When your dates tend to be closer to your parents' ages than your own you might have a Daddy Complex.
|Is this what my friends saw in my past dates? Seriously, I found him by Googling old, short, Asian guy.|
So check, check, and check. I see where they're going, but let me make something very clear... I don't have a type. Older, shorter, Asian men were just the only ones who liked me back. If you're going to pigeon hole me based on my past dating choices let's throw in emotionally unavailable too!
I've dated both an Irish guy and a Canadian guy who were age appropriate and of similar height. No one remembers that though! I'm just putting this out there, but if you want to try to set me up on a date with someone (and I will more than likely laugh at you when you suggest it), this is my "type":
Funny- Sarcastic and dry funny is the best.
Smart- Able to hold his own in conversation (engaging helps) and knows the difference between their, they're, and there.
Sexy- This is partially based on looks. Maybe it's his smile, the way the corner of his eyes crinkle up when he laughs, or the way he carries himself when he walks. More than that it's confidence.
So when you're out there scouting for me here are a few examples of what might be of interest to me.
|Humble sexy... Mommy like!|
|Preferably in this tux|