Tuesday, May 10, 2011

I'm probably not sorry...

I was about to open with an apology when I realized I have no one to apologize to. Recently when worried I might have offended someone though having no idea what it might have been that was offensive, I came to the conclusion that I simply do not have time to be sorry for crap people won't confront me about.

1. I cannot read your mind.
2. How can I be sorry for something I am unaware of?
3. If it's merely your perception of something I've done... I might be sorry for all the wrong reasons!
4. You might even have an opinion on something I've done and it upsets you. I might think you're stupid, in which case, I am also not sorry. Unless I'm only sorry you're stupid.

Most people don't like confrontation. I get it. I wish we could all just get along too. Unfortunately we can't always be happy with each other. You have some choices to make. You can either sweep your gripe under the rug and pretend nothing is wrong, you can go away and never speak to me again, or you can tell me what's wrong and we can go from there.

Now this is not meant to be directed at any one person. This is pretty much a shout out to all people everywhere. I've made apologies for so many things over the years that I'm fairly certain had absolutely nothing to do with me. I never wanted anyone to be hurt. It never fixed anything.

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